Many a time did we tell you how to turn your dreams into goals and how to achieve them. Yet there is an important caveat: to achieve your goal you need to work hard (without fatigue), enjoy what you do, and upgrade your skills.
If you are not in the right sort of mood, you can hardly stir a finger, to say nothing of great achievements. This kind of depression cannot pass easily and may last for a long time aggravating from day to day. Consequently, your goal moves farther and farther away from you. To overcome this condition, you need to put yourself together, and find the strength to adopt yourself to the circumstances. In short, you need motivation.
You can say, "Isn't my dream a motivation?" This is the main problem. Many people cannot see the difference between the two notions. Motivation is not a goal, it is the enthusiasm that helps you quickly and confidently achieve your goal. But if the enthusiasm is gone, how are you to know the reason?
Reason One. Inflated Purpose.
Many aspiring entrepreneurs want to have all at once, especially in MLM business, when they want to follow the example of their prosperous, strong and successful mentors. Hardy have they started to work on their own website and mentally overcome all the difficulties and hardships of everyday work, they picture in their minds a luxurous car by an exotic seaside. ...Well, if you do your hard work in your imagination only, the luxurious car of your dream will never become real. Too global ideas cannot be realised too quickly. In the end, you will be bitterly disappointed, and your motivation will decrease. Take your time. Set feasible tasks and attainable goals. Think of an ordinary good quality car before dreaming about a luxurious one, and make every effort to achieve your goal.
The mistakes you made in the past are often a barrier to new challenges. Instead of the former enthusiasm you have a feeling of uncertainty. And most importantly, you are afraid of making another mistake. The slightest failure may be a reason to lose heart forever. And this is your biggest mistake. The thing is, you need failures and mistakes for your further developement. All the great and successful people say about the importance of failures in their careers. This experience is far from negative, since failures strengthen one's character. If all is absolutely all right all the time, you get out of habit of resisting hardships. Any little thing is able to break your plans. There are no such ideal plans that can fit the reality 100 per cent OK. One must be prepared for this and take the world as it is.
Reason Two. Negative Experiences
If you do not feel strong any more, try to be optimistic and believe in your dream. Try to feel you are strong again. Then the motivation comes back. Do not get upset, if your plans were broken. You'd better correct your mistakes and analyse all you did. This is the way to understand why something was wrong or right, why something was good or bad for you. Sort out things and get down to work again. Never be afraid of making a fresh start. Then you will reach your goal without any fuss, safely and surely. This is the motivation for your dream to come true!
